I am an amazing friend/family member, not trying to be a brag but there’s literally nothing I won’t do for my loved ones. I help them clean, cook for them, bring them take out, do their laundry, let them use my house for things, clean to an OCD level of perfection so they can throw parties here, i throw bridal/baby showers for them. I do things that put me out and make me uncomfortable, but not one person will do nice things for me. I get told they are too busy or they just flat don’t want to help. It’s depressing. I feel like I’m worth nothing to any of them.